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Posted: Thu 9:18, 24 Mar 2011 Post subject: Be Happy - "Hakuna Matata"_24 |
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An R&B (Rhythm and Blues) song goes,CA women clothing, "Don't worry, be happy.." From the "Lion King" movie it is "Hakuna Matata."
And on a day-to-today basic lifestyle, believe it or not, "You can create your own happiness." Start the day right! Whisper to God and greet people around you with a smile.
Certain character traits seem to foster the ability to create your own happiness. Emotional maturity, for example, allows you to keep jarring events in perspective. Creativity allows you to transform the ordinary into something that is really fun. Ordinary chores make you strive for more and it helps one master a way of life. No back logs,Red Monkey Jeans, no regrets, but constant devotion to work satisfies. Experts tell that everyday we continue working on our whole lives.
Whenever you give expression to feelings and wishes, it has its effect - good or bad. No one can predict possible outcomes in every situation, but you can try hard. Think of the consequences of your actions, and its effect on you and other people. Be prudent.
Oftentimes, everybody's life has its hare of irritations and problems. Not overreacting to each unpleasant incident is another important way of keeping control. Humor helps. We tend to take things seriously. Tolerating frustration also means not giving in to every whim you have. Instant gratification is definitely not compatible to maturity. For example, if you're so frustrated you tend to shop-till- you drop, party on food and wine, and satisfy endless desires of the body; this will not help but perhaps make problems worst. Talking to family members and trusted friends will give you support times you are falling.
Master emotions. Emotions are overcome without acting on them. You don't have to be pushed around by your feelings. One way is to contradict it with the opposite behavior. When you are afraid,Jordan 4, sing! When you are angry with your friend or relative, try to be more pleasant to them. This will weaken the emotion.
Be more empathic everyday. Try putting yourself into other people's shoes. This will give you consideration for others because you can understand them more. This is not being weak, this is being stronger. Remember the golden rule "Do to others what you like them to do to you,Men's Nike Air Force 1 Low," and vice versa. Also, ponder on the commandment of loving others (neighbor) as yourself.
Take care of your own needs and don't wait for others to do things for you. If they support you, then thank them; if they don't,Dior winter scarf, think they're just too busy. Live creatively and explore the possibilities of living - big or small. "Carpe diem! "Seize that day,Coach winter scarf, life is beautiful.
Rose Flores Martinez, 2010 |
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